Today I've decided to start trying a new approach to how I will manage seducing/pursuing multiple women at the same time. I've decided to limit the number of women that I am actively pursuing to no more than 5 of the best, top-quality women that fit my current desires. The reasons for this are several.
First, at this point in my life, I am all about balance. I've got a good handle on the main aspects of my life (I'm making progress in my goal to start an art business, I'm exercising regularly and eating healthy, and I know enough about women that I don't need to expend tons of mental energy trying to seduce any one woman just for the experience). I want to keep things balanced, and pursuing too many women at a time takes too much mental energy and time.
Second, by having multiple women in my life, I can keep a mindset of abundance (I won't feel at a loss if one women is too busy to meet with me, or if one woman goes cold on me for whatever reason), while keeping the number low enough that I can provide individualized, focused attention to these women without tiring myself out too much (I've decided to go back to writing and logging my seduction strategies down, rather than winging it, like I have been doing).
Third, I increase my chances of getting sex, since it is always smarter to keep your eggs in multiple women's baskets, rather than just one . Having multiple women in my life also means that I have access to a wide range of women that I can hangout with sexually AND socially
I won't completely forget about the other women in my life who aren't in my "Top 5". I will occasionally text and message them to hangout, but they likely won't factor too much into my life, besides maybe using them for triangulation/jealousy plotlines. Maybe these other women can break into my Top 5 if they throw some sex at me, but until that happens, I won't pay them too much mind.
Let's try it out!
Last Edited By: thecoldest Feb 28 16 2:43 AM. Edited 2 times.