Dec 22 15 3:47 AM
I have recently made some (probably obvious) discoveries about women, particularly Asian women.
I used to function under the belief that you could treat every woman the same. I thought that despite the differences in geography, culture, and language you could treat all women across the world exactly the same, and they would more or less respond the same way, particularly in matters of seduction. I was wrong.
Messaging Asian Women
One thing that I have just recently discovered (over the past week) is that Asian women LOVE it when you message them often (every day, multiple times a day). I have heard this corroborated from other men, but I kind of ignored it because I was so stuck in my American cultural conditioning of only messaging a woman a couple of times a week at most. Combine this with the fact that, as a Cold Coquette, I tend to want to project "mystery", and in my wanting to be mysterious, I closed myself off from the idea that being an omnipresent entity in a woman's phone would work in my seductions. I was wrong.
For the past week I have been making an effort to message the attractive Chinese women in my phone every day, and I've noticed that they all respond well to it. I usually message them pictures of whatever it is I am doing (eating, drawing, things that I see around campus, etc.), as well as a statement of some sort. For example, today I messaged them a picture of a puppy that my friends-with-benefits sent me. The format went like this: "(Her name), my friend says that he puppy is getting bigger", and the next message was a picture of the puppy looking adorably at the screen. 95% (a rough estimate) of the girls responded back, quite excitedly.
One thing that I have also found to be true is that you don't need to take an Asian woman not responding to your messages as necessarily a bad thing (I have also heard this corroborated from other men). For some reason, even if an Asian woman likes you, she will not feel the need to respond to every single message that you send her. This happened a few times over the past week with a girl who I know for certain really likes me. I would send her a message with a picture and a statement, and she wouldn't respond. On days where her and I would have an appointment to hangout, I would send her a "reminder" message (Hey (her name), see you soon!), and she wouldn't respond to it, but she would message me a few minutes before our time to hangout to let me know that she is on her way. In the past this would confuse me- I would think that I am doing something wrong if women are ignoring me- but now I see the light!
One thing that I also realize is that Asian women don't like answering questions over messages (the reason for this, I have heard, is that many of them aren't used to talking about themselves), and those types of messages are more likely to get ignored than messages with statements attached to them. That is why I generally only send messages with statements and pictures attached to them.
There are many (by my tastes) beautiful women in China, and the best thing about them is that many of them don't know how beautiful they are to foreigners. Chinese men seem to have some strange parameters of beauty, and they don't find women attractive who fall outside of these parameters. As a matter of fact, just today I brought an extremely beautiful Chinese girl over to my house. She is very curvy, and I find her extremely sexy, but she tells me that she thinks she is "fat." Even though I find her body (and, in particular, her delicious looking legs) extremely attractive, she tells me that Chinese men don't like her body type. I told her that she should date an American, and she told me that she never considered it. After I brought her over to my place and charmed her, I think that she is definitely considering it now...
More on this topic to come. Feel free to share your thoughts on Asian women, and the cultural differences in seducing them
Last Edited By: thecoldest Dec 22 15 4:10 AM. Edited 2 times.