I have a feeling I may be a bit older than most people here, but maybe I have more experience to share.
I've been out of college for awhile. I'm a working professional and a bit of a masculine dandy. I have found though that hiding my feminity has worked well with seducing men. They seem to like the challenge of coaxing out my sexuality, or maybe they like that I have the same views as they do when it comes to sex and relationships.
Glad to be here!