The Art of Bold Move
The Art of Bold Move
What is everyone's experience with this?
As you have all noticed, I have been seducing my target for nearly 9 months now. After careful contemplation, I have come to the realization. I played the first 3 stages of seduction to near perfection (spare that Coquette blunder), but there is one critical problem: I feel hesitant to make the bold move.
Back in November, Miss Sensualist made a rather enigmatic remark to me, saying, "You should come see me sometime. You know, so that we could talk." And guess what? I didn't show up and delayed the meeting. A few days later, I made my Coquette blunder. At that time, she said to me, "Let's stop this. I want us to be friends," to which I declined and declared that if our relationship was going to be devolved into friendship, then I am walking out of her life for good. Again, she said, "Let's talk." Being emotional at the time, I spitefully told her, "Maybe we shouldn't talk." Then after several days, I took back what I said, "Okay, let's talk, please." She agreed, but then, I delayed the time to meet her until she started ignoring me again. When we did see each other again, she made all the signs that she wanted to tell me something, but I pulled that Coquette maneuver (to perfection) with her that made her weep afterwards.
I have been investing on this girl for so long. I feel that she has been investing in me equally as well. The last time I spoke to her was last week and her last words to me were, "Work hard and take care." After that she deactivated her FB, which was our only method of communication and she is using another FB, also in her name, but to which we are not friends.
This made me evaluate the situation critically. She has basically tried to talk to me THREE times. And during those three different times, I kept delaying. Tell me, am I right to assume, that all those three times, she was giving me the cue to declare my bold move? That, perhaps, she was ready to surrender? That I'm too preoccupied with myself to even digest this piece of data?
I feel like I play the three stages of seduction with relative ease, but each time, I forced my seduction to end, or gave up altogether, when it was time to make a bold move. I thought about this, and the reason for that is: I'm scared. I'm scared to make the bold move because I have this inner insecurity that I will get rejected. I'm scared because I'm not confident enough to think if I could pull it off. I'm scared because I feel like if I attempt the bold move, then the thrill of the chase would be over and my targets will get bored of me.
What will I do to get un-scared?